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  Most people have a very limited idea about war. We all hear about
battles, military campaigns, soldiers dying. But we know too little
about the life of ordinary citizens during wartime and even less about
the fate of children. Children’s points of view about war are also very
rare. This is particularly true about the worst of all wars: World War
two.

 In my book, “WAR AND PEACE IN MY BACKYARD”, I offer a rare view on war lived by a child. For me as a child, war seemed sometimes like a
frightening and fascinating game played by adults. The trucks, the
tanks, the airplanes, the dogfights, the strong and fearless soldiers,
the relative chaos, the trickery to deceive the enemy; they all created
a captivating world for the young naive boy. World War 2 brought all
this to my backyard in the lovely green Dutch village of Oisterwijk. A
German General and his staff occupied our house and so the war invaded
my backyard.

 Then came the Allies, the Scots and the Canadians, who finally brought
the long awaited liberation. But their arrival brought more death and
suffering than celebration. My memories show the long way from naive
children games to tragedy. Finally came the beginning of real peace and
reconciliation, thanks to Traudi, a little german girl. The book is a
witness account by a 7-year-old boy at the outbreak of war and an 11
year old, at the end. It is a story of hope.

 Here are the comments on “WAR AND PEACE IN MY BACKYARD” by ex-general
Roméo Dallaire, son of a canadian soldier who participated in the
liberation of Holland:

 “WAR AND PEACE IN MY BACKYARD”, brought me home, for my mother was a
survivor of the Second World War in Europe, more precisely Holland.

 Those who lived through this long and murderous war of the twentieth
century very rarely talk about it. I always asked myself what the daily
life was in a country invaded and crushed under martial law. ...I often
wondered if the children had the right to laugh, play and dream in all
innocence, or did the foreign and crushing military occupation take this
right away for ever?

 I have found the answer to the question that intrigued me for 50 years.
It is here, so clear, simple, human and so innocent, in this marvelous
book.

 «WAR AND PEACE IN MY BACKYARD» is the expression of youth caught in a
web of complex and potentially deathly situations. But while one devours
each page of this book so full of emotions, one enters literally into
the daily life of children looking for joy, adventure and the maximum of
innocence. The scenes chosen by the author to introduce us to a
childhood that was almost lost, are the more revealing that they show us
also the insight of the child.”

 I have, until today, met with more than 12 000 children and adults in
the province of Quebec to talk about my war memories as a child. They
have been touched and often even transformed. The book is often used by
teachers in the classroom to help kids talk and think about war, peace,
reconciliation, the role of the family and the resilience of children.

 You can purchase the book directly from the publisher (8.95$, plus
taxes and mailing). The publisher’s address is below. The book will also
be available in bookstores very soon.

Kees Vanderheyden
190 rue Desrochers
Mont-Saint-Hilaire, Qc
J3H 3C8
450-467-2146
keesv@sympatico.ca

Author also of:
“La guerre dans ma cour” (Boréal 1995),
“Enfants en guerre” (Boréal 2001)
“War and Peace in my backyard” (Edipax 2005)
soon : “The child of the enemy” (Edipax 2006)
==

THE PUBLISHER of “War and Peace in my backyard” :

Éditions de la Paix
127, rue Lussier
Saint-Alphonse-de-Granby
Canada
J0E 2A0

info@editpaix.qc.ca

450-375-4765
 

Shake Hands with the Devil
by Lt.-Gen. Romeo Dallaire

 

 

 

 

 

When Lt.-Gen. Romeo Dallaire received the call to serve as force commander of the UN intervention in Rwanda in 1993, he thought he was heading off on a modest and straightforward peacekeeping mission. Thirteen months later he flew home from Africa, broken, disillusioned and suicidal, having witnessed the slaughter of 800,000 Rwandans in only a hundred days. In Shake Hands with the Devil, he takes the reader with him on a return voyage into the hell of Rwanda, vividly recreating the events the international community turned its back on. This book is an unsparing eyewitness account of the failure by humanity to stop the genocide, despite timely warnings.

Woven through the story of this disastrous mission is Dallaire’s own journey from confident Cold Warrior, to devastated UN commander, to retired general engaged in a painful struggle to find a measure of peace, reconciliation and hope. This book is General Dallaire’s personal account of his conversion from a man certain of his worth and secure in his assumptions to a man conscious of his own weaknesses and failures and critical of the institutions he’d relied on. It might not sit easily with standard ideas of military leadership, but understanding what happened to General Dallaire and his mission to Rwanda is crucial to understanding the moral minefields our peacekeepers are forced to negotiate when we ask them to step into the world’s dirty wars.

Excerpt from Shake Hands with the Devil
My story is not a strictly military account nor a clinical, academic study of the breakdown of Rwanda. It is not a simplistic indictment of the many failures of the UN as a force for peace in the world. It is not a story of heroes and villains, although such a work could easily be written. This book is a cri de coeur for the slaughtered thousands, a tribute to the souls hacked apart by machetes because of their supposed difference from those who sought to hang on to power. . . . This book is the account of a few humans who were entrusted with the role of helping others taste the fruits of peace. Instead, we watched as the devil took control of paradise on earth and fed on the blood of the people we were supposed to protect.

AUTHOR BIOGRAPHY

Lt.-Gen. Roméo Dallaire joined the Canadian army in 1964. Upon his return from serving as Force Commander of the UN mission to Rwanda, he served as Commander of the 1st Canadian Division and Deputy-Commander of the Canadian Army. Promoted to Three-Star General, he was appointed to various senior positions including Assistant Deputy Minister (Human Resources-Military) in the Ministry of Defence. He continues to assist the Canadian Forces and Veterans’ Affairs in matters related to Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. General Dallaire was medically released from the Armed Forces in April 2000 due to PTSD, and is now Special Adviser to the Canadian Government on War Affected Children and the Prohibition of Small Arms Distribution. He is married and the father of three children.
 

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